You live in your reality. Let me write that again. You live in YOUR reality. What that means is you have the ability to change your reality whenever you would like.
Above in the video, I touch on the fact that I am in small country town where it’s difficult to make friends and on the whole the people aren’t very nice, BUT there are some very nice people here in Termoli. It’s a frustrating place to be in, when in 3 months I have less than 10 friends.
However, do I let that effect me? I could. I could just sulk and complain and make myself and people around me miserable or I could take another approach and accept that this might be the reality in this town for a non Italian speaker but it doesn’t have to be MY reality.